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COMMUNICATION AND CONNECTION
Our
community story tells how one woman moved
into action to create meaningful moments
on several different levels.
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Stories about business settings, school, holidays, community
work, and bonding opportunities. We learn to practice interaction
with integrity, taking risks to inspire communication and
connection.

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HEARTS AND HAMMERS
In
1993 Lynn Willeford had a vision to create a sense
of community and outreach in our local area. This
vision took the form of a program that we now
call Hearts and Hammers. Her intention was threefold
*Fix
houses
*Build
community
*Help
young people get started in volunteer programs
Lynn
wanted to find a way for people to do hands on
work for homeowners who were elderly, disabled,
or low income. She assembled a group of community
people who would assist and support her in making
this vision a reality. I was one of the early
board members.
The
first year was a huge learning curve for all of
us. Hearts and Hammers learned how to acquire
insurance for the workday, how to find grant money,
how to ask businesses for donations, how to set
up a tax-deductible entity and much more.
Finally
Hearts and Hammers was ready to accept applications.
Ads went in the local newspaper advertising for
homes that needed work. We found that it wasn't
easy for people to ask for help - especially from
an unproven, new group. It was like we were getting
ready for a huge party and what if nobody came?
How could we make it feel like neighbors helping
neighbors rather than charity?

THE FIRST YEAR
That
first year we had eight houses to work on. A house
captain was assigned to head up the work force
for each home. Volunteers signed up to help and
were assigned to a particular team. Donations
were solicited from the community to pay for materials
for each project. Local businesses were very generous
at donating materials or giving them to us at
cost. All the work was done on one day. Volunteers
repaired roofs, decks, plumbing, tamed overgrown
yards, removed garbage, painted, put in new flooring,
chopped wood, built handicap ramps and much more.
Homeowners paid nothing.
After
the workday was finished, a free dinner was provided
for the volunteers and homeowners. House captains
gave reports of what was accomplished and some
of the homeowners told what the day was like for
them. The kids on the jobs were thanked for being
part of this energetic day of fixing, painting,
mending, building and replacing. Meaningful moments
were shared as the stories of the day were told.
Four politicians with widely differing political
positions were intentionally put on the same job
with the admonition that they were not to talk
politics. On another job the crew put in a new
cement wheelchair ramp and the homeowner asked
all the volunteers to carve their names in the
cement before it dried.

Homeowners
are an important part of the projects. One of
them made homemade tamales for their entire crew.
Some baked cookies, offered water and juice, and
worked side by side with the volunteers if they
were able. Some have returned the next year to
work on someone else's home. The feeling is that
the circle comes round. One day any of us could
be the ones who need a helping hand. We in this
community know that help is available if and when
the time comes; meanwhile we assist those who
are in need.
As
the word spread about the spirit and integrity
of the program, the stigma of needing and asking
for help has dissipated. Volunteers usually think
they are doing a good deed for someone else when
they start to work on an assignment. What most
people find out is that working together is fun.
The experience is transformed from simply helping
out to creating meaningful memories together and
a sense of community for the homeowners as well
as the helpers.

Hearts
and Hammers has been operating for more than ten
years now. A budget of $25,000 and a crew of four
hundred move out to assist at least thirty homes
annually.
For
more information about Hearts and Hammers and
how to start one in your community go to their
website www.heartsandhammers.com
A
sense of satisfaction from sharing and helping
others makes magical moments in a community setting.

Be
sure to share your story with us by contacting
info@mark-the-moment.com

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