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PERSONAL SPOTLIGHT
This
section helps the individual to see themselves
outside of a group. We begin to establish
our individuality. Part of this process
comes through times where we are honored
alone - like for birthdays and major physical
transitions like puberty and menopause,
as well as accomplishments like graduations.
We are being celebrated on our own merits
outside of a group setting. We are learning
to stand alone.
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Stories about time alone, graduations,
significant life transitions, birthdays,
special holidays that involve an individual
like Mother’s Day, religious
passages that are done alone like
confirmation or bar/bar Mitzvah. We
celebrate transitions alone, yet are
supported by others.

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HOMETOWN HEROS
Read about a woman who
finds local community heroes
For
more than seven years my favorite column in our
local newspaper is called Hometown Heroes. Each
month a person in our community is honored as
worthy of special mention. These articles tell
about the individual, their philosophy of life
with quotes from friends and family as to why
this person has been inspirational. I love having
positive news and real people to look up to, rather
than the usual dismal reports we get on TV and
the larger city papers. The author creates a meaningful
moment for her readers, as well as the monthly
hero, in Hometown Heroes.
Susan
Knickerbocker had a dream one night describing
in detail the format, what needed to be in this
column, even the name. She promptly paid a visit
to the local paper and met with the editor. She
laid out her ideas for him, and then departed
thinking that she had left the whole project in
his hands. A couple of days later, after the newspaper
staff had reviewed the proposed idea, the editor
called Susan saying the project was accepted.
Would she please write the articles? Susan hadn't
done any writing before, but she took on the challenge
and has been blessing our community with these
special articles since then.
Susan's
upbringing didn't include many positive role models.
She realized early on that she needed to find
them for herself if she was going to have any
in her life. She would read children's books that
talked about famous people who have inspired others.
These books were basic to her need for finding
uplifting persons of character to look up to.

The
intention of Hometown Heroes is to "inspire
to lead lives of excellence," says Susan.
A local person is honored, yet Susan feels that
the information is more for the reader than the
nominated hero. When she is sorting through received
information about the hero, her selection process
is determined by thinking about the reader, and
what inspiration and encouragement they will receive
to continue to do their best in the world.
Susan
sends perspective heroes an extensive questionnaire
to fill out before she interviews them. She asks
for names of contacts who know him/her to whom
she sends additional information sheets for collecting
supplementary data and useable quotes. She then
finds an emerging theme for each hero, and the
article begins to unfold. It takes her 60-100
hours preparation time for each article.
The
community nominates people for this column. To
date she has a backlog of 350 names of perspective
heroes. The newspaper normally picks the next
candidate. Once a year the paper features a high
school student. For this article Susan will send
out queries to the local public, private high
schools, and home schooling programs, asking for
nominations.
Susan looks for the philosophies of the heroes.
She likes to expand on their views of life and
how they choose to live in the world. She also
gently explores their weaknesses as part of the
human spirit, and acknowledges their personal
challenges. How a person chooses to work with
their challenges speaks about them as much as
what they do with their strengths.

Susan
receives a very nominal remuneration for this
writing. To date the money is donated towards
making a plaque with the names of the heroes on
it, which will be kept at the local library.
I
asked her what she personally receives from doing
this labor of love. She says she receives inspiration
from learning about others. For her these role
models from our community can keep her focused
on the good in people who are like the rest of
us - not just the famous ones throughout history.
She also receives feedback periodically on how
the articles have affected someone's life. She
knows she is on the right track when others are
receiving inspiration to continue to live their
lives with excellence.
Even
if you don't have this inspiring monthly column
in your local newspaper, think about who you would
consider a hometown hero for yourself. When we
look around our community and family with those
eyes, we may be surprised who we find in our midst.

Please
send me a story where you have created a meaningful
moment for someone special in your life. Contact
me at info@mark-the-moment.com

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